Friday, June 23, 2006

Thinking...

When I come to think about it, as little as 7mm (size of the baby) the baby’s heart beat is as clear as daylight. It’s living and its breathing and its heart is beating to stay alive.

Then I thought - for those women who decided to have an abortion or as it’s normally used in Malay terms as washing/flushing it away - for the baby to be at such tender age of 6 weeks or less- it’s vindictive. Though its only small, that doesn’t mean that it doesn’t have feelings or there’s nothingness in it. It’s created for you and there’s always a purpose why it’s created for you no matter if it’s an accidental pregnancy. It’s yours to keep and yours to cherish and take care of no matter the circumstances. Good always comes in a package that you might think is unkind (if that make sense). Maybe circumstances tells you it's not the right time to have it, next time then... maybe you might say that the world is too cruel for it to be living in...


Well, whatever the reason is, it's still ending the life of an innocent child and that's still a merciless thing to do...

Whether if the baby is 2 weeks old or 8 months old, it’s alive and it knows… It’s breathing, it has a heart beat that beats and beats and beats - it’s in you, it’s part of you as one…

Some may regret some might not...

That’s just my thought for today whether anyone like it or not...

3 comments:

Ely said...

yes mas deary...u're very right. eventho this is my 3rd pregnancy, i am still amazed at how this baby was a beanie before and not kicking and boxing the inner walls of my uterus. the feeling if it kicking is wonderful!

people abort babies for many reasons. sometimes i do not even dare to judge their reasons.

for me, when my kids turned 10, sometimes i understand why moms always says that they wish they could 'picit picit' them when they were younger hehehe.

bunkerangs said...

amazing isn't it? from a small beanie size enbryo to a full grown baby..you can feel it's growth and all that :) i saw the video on abortion when i was 17..i can never forget the images..anyway, pregnancy is such a beautiful thing :)

Anonymous said...

Wonderful feeling kan Mas:) So a singleton for you it seems..unlike the dream you had..was it triplets?..anyways...so glad that you get to experience those feelings and knowing a lil human is slowly forming inside you:) I remember , when I saw 2 hearbeats..sooo overwhelming indeed..tak tau nak ketawa or nangis...just overwhelmed!....take care mas..rest and eat well ok:)